Thursday, November 25, 2010

BLOSSOMING IN RELATIONSHIPS……

I was talking to my Uncle once, and while our philosophical talks, he said a very beautifully meaningful statement……….”We plant a small shrub of rose in our garden happily, we take lots of care of it initially, then slowly it starts growing…………but  in the meanwhile if we do not take care of it, water it, trim it, then it will start dying……..also if we take too much care of it and keep on watering it every now n then; then its roots will start decomposing due to lots of water……but  if we balance between the care and time given to it, within few days it will have blossoming roses  fascinating us with its beauty & fragrance.”
Thus what I could understand from his indirect teachings  was that,  in our life every relation we start or come across, may it be brotherhood,  motherhood, friendship, or a new relation with your life partner, represents the small rose shrub. The success of that relationship depends on our commitment level, care and love we express towards the other person. As Over possessiveness may spoil the relation so does Ignorance too. Hence its crucial to have a balance between your expression of care & love from time to time. Give appropriate time and appreciation to other’s inorder  to bear the flowers of one’s relationship. Thus Blossoming in relationships throughout our life by understanding this simple example which nature teaches us is very easy  but yet difficult task. As  for most of us who run behind achieving our Dream Jobs & Career’s, life becomes so hectic & tiring that we just happen to forget to give time to our loved ones so unwillingly.
So my humble loving request to all of you is please blossom in relationships and don’t let it die. As it just takes few minutes  to express our love towards each other & make the other  feel special……!!!!!

2 comments:

  1. inspiring & a touching thought...!!
    truely said...small small moments of love and joy timely spent with each other makes up a huge mountain consisiting of trust, belongingness , happiness and a feeling of complete bliss.
    :-)

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  2. hey amu superbly written...I loved the last sentence...touched me.. haven't been doing it...but will do it from now on...coz I have realized its importance..thanx a ton 4 making me remember it again!!!

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